2 years 3 months

Now that Baby can walk, how much should she be walking? Well, she’s still got much shorter legs than you, and she may still be a little shaky on her feet, so on days when you’re in a really big hurry, having her walk on her own, instead of being carried or pushed in a stroller, may not always be the most effective way to get where you’re going.

On the other hand, it’s only by walking more that Baby’s legs are going to keep getting stronger, until the day (and it won’t be long) when she’ll be walking everywhere she goes, just like you. There’s also Baby’s preferences to take into account – she might be one of those kids who loves her stroller, and drags her feet if she’s told she doesn’t get to ride in style. On the other hand, she might be a do-it-myself kid and kick up a fuss if you try to carry her anywhere. In fact, chances are, she’s both.

So in the interest of giving Baby’s boots-made-for-walking some time to do what they do best, it’s a good idea to have her start walking regularly on shorter trips now. When it comes to long days out, though, you know Baby best, and it’s up to you to decide whether to bring out her chariot, or whether she’ll be trotting along with the rest of the herd.

Walking for themselves can also be a very physical way for Baby to build her self-confidence. Walking places on her own is very self-sufficient, after all. At this age, Baby is building up the self-confidence she is going to need before she ventures into the bigger world of preschool, interactive play with other children, and taking over basic self-care skills like potty training, dressing themselves, and brushing her teeth. Those may sound like simple tasks to an adult,  but to Baby, they’re going to be a pretty huge shift, and her self-confidence is going to come in handy.

You can help build Baby’s self-confidence up by noticing all the growing and changing she’s doing, and praising or thanking her for it. A “thank you for putting on your shoes for me all by yourself,” before heading out the door can mean a whole lot to a two-year-old, and she is doing something she would never have been able to do even a few short months ago – there’s plenty about Baby’s growth to appreciate.

Milestones

Jumps from low heights: Watch out, Baby may be heading into a daredevil stage, and she’s getting started by figuring out how to jump off of things. Those things may not be very high yet, but jumping down requires a lot of balance, bilateral coordination, and a lot of nerve – and sticking the landing takes some definite ankle-strength. If you’re lucky, she’ll get all of that jumping out of her system by jumping from rather low heights, but if she really gets a taste for leaping, get ready to flying-toddler-proof your home!

Understanding opposites: Baby is growing into a little philosopher, and you might notice her understanding concepts of opposites like “full” and “empty,” “tall” and “short,” or “wet” and “dry.” She might even start to incorporate the idea of opposites into her just-developing sense of humor. When something seems obvious, something unexpected – like the opposite of what’s expected – can seem hilarious to a two-year-old.


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