Baby has been exploring the world in one way or another since he was born, but he is moving into the stage in his life where all that exploration is starting to pay off with real understanding. Around this time, your toddler may be starting to sort objects by size, shape, and color, to know some of the names of the everyday objects in his life, and still be able to find objects like toys, even when they’re under several layers of covers.
This last trick shows a pretty strong belief in and understanding of object permanence, and he may be starting to apply that understanding to you and his other caregivers, too. This means that, if you’ve been having trouble with separation anxiety, it may have ended by now, or it may be on the way out.
On top of his growing understanding of the world around him, his feelings are also a lot stronger around this time. This can lead to some acting out, but a lot of that acting out just happens because he doesn’t know how else to respond to his feelings. Many parents are unwilling to show negative feelings to their little ones, but modeling ways to work through these feelings to Baby can teach him how to deal with his own feelings without throwing a tantrum or lashing out.
This year is also going to be a big one for helping Baby develop his physical coordination. Baby’s probably pretty comfortable with walking by now, and he’ll be ready to start experimenting with other ways to get around soon – if he isn’t already.
This means that right now is a great time to make sure your home is ready for Baby to start pioneering exciting new ways to get around. Maybe making sure all cabinets and shelves were secured to the wall didn’t feel as urgent when he was still getting the hang of being at ground-level, but Baby is getting ready to reach for the stars, so your shelving units had better be ready to support that goal, just in case you happen to look away long enough for him to take a crack at climbing them one day.
Baby’s adventures in being a two-year-old can get a little hair-raising now and then, but there’s a good chance that Baby won’t share your fears – at first. He still takes a lot of his emotional cues from you, though, and if he notices you getting scared, it may start to have an effect on the way he feels about his explorations.
Can kick a ball without falling over: Baby may not be making any field goals, but he is definitely figuring out how to make a ball go somewhere. Kicking a ball can happen much earlier, or later, and it’s one of those milestones that’s partially defined by opportunity – has Baby had wide open space to try running around, kicking a ball? Has he seen anyone else playing with a ball that way? More than that, though, when he does first manage to kick a ball, it’s proof of how far his balance has come since he first stood upright.
Greets friends or family: Does Baby wave hello to the people he knows? Does he smile, or call their names, or even say “hello”? Greeting the people in his life is one of those gestures that may just come naturally, but it’s also one of the first ways of showing his off the good manners that Baby may be developing. It’s also a sign of his attachment to the people in his life and his growing social skills.
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