There’s nothing quite like snuggle time, especially when it includes a favorite book. Regular storytime is an activity both parents and toddlers look forward to and treasure each day. Daily reading with Baby sets the foundation for lifelong learning, independent reading, and helps to increase language and literacy skills.
How to choose books for this age
This is an exciting age for reading and choosing books together. As your child approaches her third birthday, let her pick out the majority of the books you read together, whether that means going to the library together and allowing her to choose three to five books to check-out or giving her an allowance and heading to your local bookstore so she can buy her own book.
Kids this age love to handle books and turn the pages. It’s not uncommon to see a toddler carrying her book around – in the car, to older siblings’ sports practices, and to the store. Reading is a major milestone and one that your almost-three-year-old will most likely feel very proud of.
Toddlers tend to gravitate to books that are short and tell simple stories about animals, cars and trucks, adventures, other kids their age, favorite activities, families, and books that reinforce what they are learning. And while there are thousands of best-sellers, a few seem to top the favorite list more than others. Guess how much I love you by Sam McBratney; Chicka Chicka Boom Boom by Bill Martin Jr and John Archambault; Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus by Mo Wilems; Cars and Trucks and Things That Go by Richard Scarry; Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown; The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle; Where The Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak; Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See by Bill Martin Jr. and Eric Carle; We’re Going on a Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury; Sheep in a Jeep by Nancy E. Shaw and Margot Apple; and of course anything Dr. Seuss!
When and how to read to toddlers
The best time to read with your child is the time that works for you. Read before nap and bedtime, while waiting in the doctor’s office, or anytime you both need some snuggle time. Aim for an hour a day, broken into smaller chunks. Some kids can manage sitting for 30 minutes while you read to them, while others, can’t make it past the first page. If your toddler struggles to sit still, don’t force it.
Most two- and three-year-olds need to wiggle, and focusing too much on making them sit down will take away from the experience and may lead to a toddler resenting storytime. Instead, offer your toddler something to hold while you read, or allow her to stand next to you. Let her color or draw. Sit at the table and read her a story while she’s eating. If you are the passenger in a car, try reading a short book aloud during the drive. There are countless ways to involve your active child in reading that don’t always include sitting still.
And if it seems like Baby is more interested in the illustrations and pictures than the words, she probably is. Remember, the images tell the story. Ask her to look at the pictures and tell you what is going on. Read the words on the page and then go back and have her explain how the picture tells the story. Spending time with the illustrations will help her connect the story to the images and, chances are, she will return to that book during independent reading time.
I read, you read
Reading aloud to your toddler helps her make the transition from listening to reading. Once she is able to recognize some basic two and three letter words, have her help you when reading together. Point to a word in a sentence that she knows, and ask her to say it. As she becomes familiar with a story, she will be able to anticipate what is coming and even have a few sentences memorized. Encourage her to “read” the pages she knows, while you point to the words. This will help her connect what she is saying to what the word looks like on paper.
Make sure she knows that reading is not only a two-person activity. Encourage her to “read” on her own at least 15 to 30 minutes a day. Create a special space for her to read with a beanbag or cushion and a basket of books. It’s also a good idea to have books in several locations of the house. And of course, one of the most effective ways to encourage reading is to do it yourself. Baby needs to see you reading for pleasure. Consider doing independent reading together: not only does this lead to lifelong readers, but it also allows you to have quiet time right alongside your snuggle buddy!
About the author:
Sara Lindberg is a freelance writer focusing on parenting, health, and wellness. She is passionate about all things fitness and health and loves spending time with her husband, daughter, and son.
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